STUDENT:
You are planning to move out and rent a flat together with your close friend. You’ve already found a lovely and affordable place, and you’ve even spoken with the landlord. However, your parents are unaware of your plans.
You now want to talk to them and explain your decision. Your goal is to convince them you are mature and responsible enough to live independently and you’ve carefully thought things through.
You start a conversation.
TEACHER : (your parent)
You are surprised and disappointed by your child’s decision to rent a flat. You strongly disagree with it. You believe they are too young, too inexperienced, and should focus on studying. You also don’t trust that they can manage both work and school at the same time.
The conversation should last around 5 minutes.
USEFUL PHRASES (FOR STUDENTS)
| Useful Phrases | |
| Starting | I know this might come as a bit of a surprise, but… I’d really like to talk to you about something important. |
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Explaining the situation |
I’ve found a really great flat with [name of friend] – it’s in a safe area and reasonably priced. We’ve already spoken to the landlord, and the place is still available. |
| Arguing you’re responsible | I believe I’m mature enough to handle this. I’ve thought this through carefully, and I’m not rushing into anything. This is not just about independence – it’s also a chance for me to grow. |
| Justifying your plan | I’ve already found a part-time job, and I’ve calculated all my expenses. I can manage rent, bills, food – everything, without asking for extra money. |
| Addressing concerns | I completely understand if you’re worried. I know living alone comes with responsibilities, but I’m ready to take them on. I’ll make sure it doesn’t affect my grades – I’ve already created a weekly schedule to balance work and school. |
| Concluding | I’d really appreciate your support on this. I hope you can trust me to make this step. |